Having an open and honest conversation about sex with your child or teen can be daunting for any parent. It’s hard to know how to start a conversation, and even harder to stay composed when discussing sensitive subjects. However, starting these conversations early is essential for helping young people make informed decisions about their sex lives. Open and honest discussions can help reduce the risk of teenage pregnancy, sexually transmitted infections, and even unhealthy relationships.

It’s important to keep in mind that most teens already have a vast array of information when it comes to sex – thanks to friends, media and other sources. As such, it’s important to discuss accurate information in a non-judgmental manner. A good way to begin the conversation is by asking your child what they already know. This encourages them to open up while allowing you to provide additional insight as needed.

When talking about sexuality, remember not to shame your teen or blame yourself if something has happened in the past. Openly acknowledging that mistakes sometimes happen helps build trust between you and your child. Aim for clear communication instead of lecturing. Let them know that you are always available for honest dialogue without judgment from either side.

Include both facts and values in conversations about sexual health so that your teen understands why certain behaviours are discouraged or encouraged. Kids naturally have different ideas regarding what is considered ‘normal’ behaviour; discussing topics such as consent, healthy relationships and respectful boundaries can help them develop positive attitudes towards themselves and others as they grow into adulthood.

Explain potential risks associated with certain activities (e.g., unprotected sex leading to unwanted pregnancies or STDs). Make sure not to focus solely on abstinence; providing knowledge about contraception options allows teens access to more control over their bodies without feeling guilty after engaging in consensual encounters! Encourage responsible decision-making instead of just “saying no” all the time – this will ultimately lead to healthier outcomes regardless of whether kids choose one path or another.

Finally, try not to make assumptions about what your child may not want – ask directly before you assume! And never assume that your teen also speaks for all their friends – give them space to explore different opinions without fear of judgement from either direction!

Overall having an open dialogue around these topics requires patience and understanding but done right it can reap amazing rewards both now and future generations come to understand sexuality and its complexities much better than those before them did!