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Your Guide to Using a Dildo for the First Time

Embarking on your first adventure with a dildo can be both exciting and intimidating. Whether you’ve decided to buy dildos online or are simply exploring your options, this guide is designed to provide you with the confidence and knowledge to enjoy your experience fully.

Choosing the Right Dildo

Setting the Scene

Comfort is key for a pleasurable experience. Choose a private, relaxing space where you won’t be disturbed. Set the mood with soft lighting, maybe some music, and ensure you have enough time to explore without feeling rushed.

Lubrication is Essential

Lubrication is not just a suggestion; it’s a necessity. It makes the experience smoother and more enjoyable. Choose a lube that is compatible with your dildo’s material (water-based lubes are generally a safe bet). Apply generously to both the dildo and yourself.

Getting to Know Your Dildo

Take some time to get familiar with your new toy. Handle it, explore its texture, and understand how it feels in your hand. If it’s a vibrating dildo, play with the settings to find what you like. This step is all about building comfort and anticipation.

Starting Slowly

When you’re ready, start slowly. If you’re feeling nervous, it’s okay. Focus on relaxing your muscles. Begin with external stimulation, and when you feel comfortable, you can slowly and gently begin insertion. Listen to your body and go at your own pace.

It’s All About Comfort

Finding the right angle for insertion can make a significant difference. Experiment with different positions – lying down, squatting, sitting – to find what feels best for you. Remember, what works for one person might not work for another.

Discovering What Feels Good

Now comes the fun part – experimentation. Explore different depths, angles, and speeds. Pay attention to how your body responds to each sensation. This is your personal journey, so focus on what feels good for you.

Cleanliness and Care

After use, it’s crucial to clean your dildo thoroughly according to the manufacturer’s instructions. Proper cleaning ensures hygiene and extends the life of your toy. 

Storage Tips

Proper storage is just as important as cleaning. Store your dildo in a clean, dry place, ideally in a storage bag or its original packaging to protect it from dust and damage.

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